I ordered the T-max because it is the best made electric winch, not because it was cheap. Where ever it is made the standards are higher then any other winch.(Heavier duty gears, motor, water proof, no solenoids, REAL wireless remote, easily servicable motor....)
But your basic premise is correct. Cheap electrics last only a few uses and are not worth it. Especially considering how many higher end units are made today at a competitive price.
I used hydraulic winches for 15 years because NO ONE made a good electric winch back then....